191 deep questions

Deep questions with room to think.

Questions about values, growth and what makes work and life meaningful. Deep, but never prying: nothing about health, relationships or anything painful. For offsites, small groups and one-to-ones.

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A deep question invites reflection without demanding a confession. Ask about values, lessons and hopes rather than private life, give people a minute to think before anyone speaks, and always let them pass.
  1. 1.

    What's something you changed your mind about recently?

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  2. 2.

    What's one thing you'd tell yourself on your first day here?

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  3. 3.

    When did you last feel properly proud of your work?

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  4. 4.

    What's a habit that has made your weeks better?

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  5. 5.

    What drains your energy at work, and what gives it back?

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  6. 6.

    What's a mistake you learned the most from?

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  7. 7.

    Who taught you something important without knowing it?

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  8. 8.

    What's a question you wish people asked you more often?

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  9. 9.

    What does a really good day at work look like for you?

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  10. 10.

    What would you do more of if you had an extra hour each day?

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  11. 11.

    What's something you're quietly getting better at?

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  12. 12.

    What's the best feedback you've ever received?

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  13. 13.

    What's one thing you want to learn before the year ends?

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  14. 14.

    When do you do your best thinking?

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  15. 15.

    What's a small risk you're glad you took?

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  16. 16.

    What's something that seemed hard last year and is easy now?

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  17. 17.

    What part of your job would you keep if you could only keep one?

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  18. 18.

    What's one thing that would make this team better at disagreeing?

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  19. 19.

    What's a book, talk or podcast that changed how you work?

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  20. 20.

    What do you want people to come to you for?

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  21. 21.

    What's one thing you'd stop doing tomorrow if you could?

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  22. 22.

    What does being 'done' mean to you on a project?

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  23. 23.

    Which of your strengths is most underused right now?

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  24. 24.

    What helped you get through a tough stretch at work?

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  25. 25.

    What's something you've been putting off, and why?

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  26. 26.

    What would you try if you knew it couldn't fail?

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  27. 27.

    What made the best team you've worked in so good?

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  28. 28.

    What do you need more of from this group?

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  29. 29.

    What's one assumption about our work we should test?

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  30. 30.

    What's a win from the last month that nobody noticed?

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  31. 31.

    What does a well-lived week look like to you?

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  32. 32.

    What's a value you hold today that you didn't hold ten years ago?

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  33. 33.

    What do you hope people say about you when you're not in the room?

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  34. 34.

    What's a question you'd love to know the answer to before the end of your life?

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  35. 35.

    Which experience taught you the most about patience?

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  36. 36.

    What does success mean to you, in your own words?

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  37. 37.

    What's something you've learned the hard way that you'd happily pass on?

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  38. 38.

    When do you feel most at peace?

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  39. 39.

    What's a belief you hold that most people around you don't share?

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  40. 40.

    What does it mean to you to be a good neighbour?

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  41. 41.

    What's a small daily choice that says a lot about who you are?

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  42. 42.

    What would you do with an extra year that didn't count towards your age?

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  43. 43.

    What's one thing you wish you'd started earlier?

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  44. 44.

    What's a kindness you received that you've never been able to repay?

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  45. 45.

    What's the most important thing you've changed your mind about?

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  46. 46.

    What do you want more of in your life, and what's stopping you?

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  47. 47.

    What's a lesson from a grandparent or elder that stayed with you?

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  48. 48.

    What kind of courage do you most admire?

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  49. 49.

    What's a dream you've let go of, and how do you feel about it now?

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  50. 50.

    What do you think makes a good life?

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  51. 51.

    If you could send one message to everyone on Earth, what would it say?

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  52. 52.

    What does it mean to you to be generous?

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  53. 53.

    What's a tradition you'd like to pass on to the next generation?

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  54. 54.

    Which moment in your life would you like to understand better?

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  55. 55.

    What's a fear you've overcome, and how did you do it?

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  56. 56.

    What do you think people need most from each other right now?

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  57. 57.

    What does home mean to you?

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  58. 58.

    When have you felt most proud of someone else?

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  59. 59.

    What's one thing you're certain of?

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  60. 60.

    What's something you're still figuring out?

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Deep questions: common questions

What makes a question deep but still appropriate at work?

It asks about values, growth or meaning, not private life. What does success mean to you is deep; anything about health or family isn't for a team meeting.

When should I use deep questions?

At offsites, the start of a new year or project, one-to-ones and small groups that already trust each other. Not in a 15-minute stand-up.

Ask it, and every phone answers.

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